Guidelines For Dialogue

  • Dialogue is a two-way process; it involves balancing deep listening and open honest sharing.
  • Everyone is encouraged to speak.
  • Risk trusting other people with your feelings and experience.
  • Share what feels comfortable for you – don’t go beyond that.
  • You do not need a clear position or to be an expert; it is okay to be confused or to change your mind.
  • People who listen more than they speak often have more of value to share.
  • Try to be present for the full process as absence can have a negative impact.
  • If you feel uncomfortable, you may need to take time out, but let the facilitator know.
  • Take care to listen well.
  • Feel free to ask if you don’t understand.
  • Dialogue is not about agreement it is about deepening understanding.
  • Question what you hear and what you think.
  • Keep an open mind.
  • Help and support each other throughout the process.
  • The facilitator is there to support you.